Eczema and Isolation: Reactions from Kids and Parents
If you are the parent of a child with eczema, it can be hard to hear that other kids at school are keeping a distance. If you notice or hear that the parents are whispering about your child that also is painful. Remember that people still think eczema is a skin disorder that can be contracted from others. They may not even know that your child’s skin problem is dermatitis or eczema, but may instead assume it is scabies or a contagious disease. Eczema can look like a number of different disorders, some of which are contagious. You may need to begin a conversation with your child’s friends’ parents in order to ease their misgivings. It is common sense that you don’t want parents to be uncomfortable with your child because of dermatitis and understandable that they are hesitant due to questions around contagious diseases. First, speak to your child’s teacher as parents may be directing their concerns to the teacher first. If the teacher is informed, she or he can reassure the parents. Fear and protection are natural reactions so don’t get too angry because these reactions are based on lack of understanding and the instinct to protect.
You can decide whether to initiate the subject about your child’s skin rash with the other parents or wait until they question you about it. The best method of sharing information about your youngster’s skin condition is to communicate to them what you know. This skin disorder results in the swelling of their skin, which means your child’s skin is sensitive and easily irritated. You need to let the other parents know that the causes of this skin disorder vary greatly. Some triggers that inflame the sensitive skin are changes in weather conditions, allergens, and touching particular substances. When the skin comes in close contact with any of these triggers, it becomes very itchy. So itchy in fact, that your child can’t quit scratching. This results in the formation of a rash. Although this rash can look extremely severe, it’s completely non-threatening. Eczema isn’t something that can be caught, but actually the opposite is true. Your child is more susceptible to others’ skin problems. In fact, open rashes can result in an increased risk of infection. Try to give an example of other allergic reactions. When we think about allergies, we know there are sneezing, watery eyes, and congestion. Explain to them that with this disorder, the skin behaves the same way.
Remember that parents may be concerned that your child has poison ivy, scabies, chicken pox or lice. Rashes can look similar and when you see a child itching, most people’s first thought is that they don’t want their child or themselves to catch it. This is just human nature and the primary reason why parents are uncomfortable with other children who have dermatitis. Reassure them that your child’s eczema has been diagnosed and it isn’t contagious. They shouldn’t limit their child’s interaction with yours and do not need to worry about picking up a bacterial infection, virus or germs. Dealing with eczema is difficult and to feel isolated or alone during this period of one’s life adds to the hurt.
Using a good moisturizer is helpful for nourishing the skin and you can read holistic tips for eczema Here . Give your child more personal time and be sure to add humor and movies into your time together. Your child will be feeling itchy and self-conscious and needing extra nurturance.







I had a hard time in school with eczema because people thought it was contagious. Probably it was what their mom’s said because I don’t know if kids think about catching stuff. Definitely if your kid has atopic eczema or dermatitis tell the teacher to let people know it’s ok to play together.